My beautiful wife has come up with a list of things that have shaped her life and things she wishes she cared more about. Here's my off-the-cuff equivalent list using her categories:
Things I think about a lot - and which have shaped my life
- Discovering new things from God through his word
- The underdog, the not-so-popular, the dysfunctional personality type, the 'worker bees' as opposed to the elite, the oppressed, the strugglers, the left behind, the marginalised
- Respect and dignity for those that fall within the above list
- A need for structure and order
- Researching anything and the process of learning new things
- Listening and giving space and time to people to present their true selves and shed their defensive layers
- Aesthetics (ie trying to make things look good!)
- Making systems work better
Things I think about a lot - but about which I haven't done very much
- Making people aware of the importance of overseas Christian mission
- Making my day more efficient
- Making friends with parents at my kids' school
- Walking more
- Fixing my rear bike tyre (8 months now)
Things I don't care much about - but they shape my life anyway
- Detail
- What I eat
- Housework
- Mobiles
- Getting kids in and out of cars
Things I wish I cared about a bit more
- Saving money
- Maintaining any kind of neat garden
- Housework of any kind
- Keeping in touch with people from the past
Things I thought I didn't care about, but it turns out I did
- Other people's manners
- What people think of me
- Baldness!
- Computers and cars
- Being interrupted
- 'Cave time'